Need Some Serious Advice

[TheJackass]

Hi Bros,

Im new to sbf but has been active in cheonging for the past 2 years. Months back I met this VN lady and eventually fell for her after few bonking sessions. This is the first time in my life to be in love with someone of such background all because I broke my own rules (F and Go).

While she was in Spore, I actually asked her to stop working in such environment and indeed she stopped. We spent times together from evening to midnight for almost everyday (well cant be 100% sure whats she doing during day time since Im working). I even went extra miles to visit her in Vietnam and spent a day time with her family members.

She took my advice not to return to Spore but to wait for me in VN to marry her when Im financially ready (actually lied abt my actual income and savings in bank). Shes willing to wait for me but asked for $ to start a small biz in her country since after all no one is working in her family (Sum asked for is reasonable to me). The sum is of no issue to me but Im more concern abt her feeling towards me. Is she just eying for $, PR status or pure love?

Need some serious advice from seniors bros out there. Lastly sorry to all for my long grandmother's story and broken English.

[pewpew]

What does ur VN girl work as when u know her?

Is she worth it?

Are you Serious?

How big is the sum?

More specification might be better for other bros to understand the situation.

Lastly, are you prepared?

[silverblue]

Hi Bros,

Im new to sbf but has been active in cheonging for the past 2 years. Months back I met this VN lady and eventually fell for her after few bonking sessions. This is the first time in my life to be in love with someone of such background all because I broke my own rules (F and Go).

While she was in Spore, I actually asked her to stop working in such environment and indeed she stopped. We spent times together from evening to midnight for almost everyday (well cant be 100% sure whats she doing during day time since Im working). I even went extra miles to visit her in Vietnam and spent a day time with her family members.

She took my advice not to return to Spore but to wait for me in VN to marry her when Im financially ready (actually lied abt my actual income and savings in bank). Shes willing to wait for me but asked for $ to start a small biz in her country since after all no one is working in her family (Sum asked for is reasonable to me). The sum is of no issue to me but Im more concern abt her feeling towards me. Is she just eying for $, PR status or pure love?

Need some serious advice from seniors bros out there. Lastly sorry to all for my long grandmother's story and broken English.
see the bolded part and your story itself already given you an answer. question is, will you accept the fact?

[mebirdie]

钱是可以买暂时的爱情
真爱是要时间来磨练的

There is no right or wrong. I do not know what is she and you up to as well.
Most important is that you must prepare to lose and it is not a heavy lesson. Do not blame her. You are the only one to blame and take it as a lesson.

[pussyman72]

There is no right or wrong. I do not know what is she and you up to as well.
Most important is that you must prepare to lose and it is not a heavy lesson. Do not blame her. You are the only one to blame and take it as a lesson.

yes i do agree with what u said. It up to the person what he wanna do. We can advice alot and talk alot about good and bad things but in the end you are the one who decide or know what is good for u.

there are bros here who insult them but that doesnt mean their intention are not good. only some are...... like saying omg u marrying a whore...

Just ignore what they said. just focus on those advices that u need to think carefully before u commit.

cheers

[Oralcraz]

U r a big boy to make decision. No one can advise right or wrong, good or bad. Only advice to u is "think carefully and whatever u decide, DO NOT REGRET in future." As for asking for $$$, is normal. If not for $$$, she need to work as FL meh???

[etct88]

Hi Bros,

Im new to sbf but has been active in cheonging for the past 2 years. Months back I met this VN lady and eventually fell for her after few bonking sessions. This is the first time in my life to be in love with someone of such background all because I broke my own rules (F and Go).

While she was in Spore, I actually asked her to stop working in such environment and indeed she stopped. We spent times together from evening to midnight for almost everyday (well cant be 100% sure whats she doing during day time since Im working). I even went extra miles to visit her in Vietnam and spent a day time with her family members.

She took my advice not to return to Spore but to wait for me in VN to marry her when Im financially ready (actually lied abt my actual income and savings in bank). Shes willing to wait for me but asked for $ to start a small biz in her country since after all no one is working in her family (Sum asked for is reasonable to me). The sum is of no issue to me but Im more concern abt her feeling towards me. Is she just eying for $, PR status or pure love?

Need some serious advice from seniors bros out there. Lastly sorry to all for my long grandmother's story and broken English.


Hi nephew!

u have PM....

ah pek....

[TheJackass]

Just to furnish more info to my first posting. I got to know her in Joo Chiat while I was having dinner with my friend months back. She asked for ard 3K to start up her biz in VN. So far have invested ard 4K during her two months stay in Spore and 0.5k on her when I was in Vietnam.

To be frank Im serious abt it but not mentally ready. She initialed to have our sessions raw, thinking back makes me worried abt health issues. Was told off by her that paying her at end of each bonking session makes me no diff from all her ex-customers. Maybe shes just one of the Red Star Award winner out there.

[colins]

You probably can't confirm anything until somebody else is willing to give her larger sum of money to start a bigger business. Eyeing your money yes, eyeing your PR yes, eyeing for pure love from you all yes. Question is, what ARE you eyeing for?

[FL Lover]

To TS, you mentioned to yor VN ger abt your finanical status and your earnings. She listens to you n returns to VN to wait for you but in returns, she needs you to send her $$ to start business....

My advise, if I were you, I will run to the nearest church or temple, wash my face with holy water or bless water and slap myself hard....

Another typical KC... Whats wrong with SBF nowadays.. Getting more n more pple get kced everyday...

Have you ever ask yourself.. What if she ask you for more $$ but this time rounds, $$ not enough. More excuses e.g. Renovations, No business but need $$ for rents, SHOP GET BURNT, FLOOD DAMAGED GOODS, COWS RUN INTO SHOPS, PARENTS KAPO ALL GOODS IN SHOP ETC ETC...

U already lying to VN ger abt your finanical status. Better stop now if you can before u sink deep

[sammyboyfor]

My advise, if I were you,



Should be "My ADVICE...".

"Advise" is a verb.

[abuja]

Another typical KC... Whats wrong with SBF nowadays.. Getting more n more pple get kced everyday...
A better question to ask is what is wrong with Singapore girls nowadays regardless WL or not. How come bros don't kc with them and find foreign girls to KC instead. :)

[groo]

...Another typical KC... Whats wrong with SBF nowadays.. Getting more n more pple get kced everyday......Have you ever ask yourself.. What if she ask you for more $$ but this time rounds, $$ not enough. More excuses e.g. Renovations, No business but need $$ for rents, SHOP GET BURNT, FLOOD DAMAGED GOODS, COWS RUN INTO SHOPS, PARENTS KAPO ALL GOODS IN SHOP ETC ETC......Shows that SBF is attracting more and more members... :D

Anyway, once she asks for more money, that's the cue for the TS, isn't it?!?!!? Faster bail out lah, still wait with your head on the chopping board meh?!??!? Bwahahahahahahaha!!! :D

[HCKing]

A better question to ask is what is wrong with Singapore girls nowadays regardless WL or not. How come bros don't kc with them and find foreign girls to KC instead. :)

this one ah.........well 4 a better understanding pls try dating both and i am sure u will knw the answer yrself.:p

[HCKing]

Shows that SBF is attracting more and more members... :D

Anyway, once she asks for more money, that's the cue for the TS, isn't it?!?!!? Faster bail out lah, still wait with your head on the chopping board meh?!??!? Bwahahahahahahaha!!! :D

hahahaha but problem is by the time the magic word is out, the guy already gong gong liao and will be more than willing to give her watever she asks 4 to 'prove his love' for her. chop!:D

[groo]

...the guy already gong gong liao and will be more than willing to give her watever she asks 4 to 'prove his love' for her. chop!Well, at least our TS seems to be on his guard... :D

The gong gong one is because he did not come to SBF to seek advice mah... Bwahahahahahahaha!!! :D

[groo]

this one ah.........well 4 a better understanding pls try dating both and i am sure u will knw the answer yrself...It's just like many years back, when HK was returned to PRC, so many HK men had gfs and wives back in SZ GZ... Their gripes were that their women were too demanding, aggressive, possessive, blah-blah-blah...!!! So when the floodgates to PRC were opened, you know the story, just like what is happening here now... :D

Many of our girls are too materialistic liao, due to the environment they were brought up in. Add to the fact that our market is so open with the influx of so many foreign talent and professionals, it's no wonder they always have the dis-illusion and mistaken perception that the angmos are tua-ki... Lest they forget, the angmos were the ones who invented Via-lis-tra...

So now who's the "suay-ki" ones!!! Bwahahahahhahahaha!!! :D

[ilovelife.now]

Bro - Every one has given a suggestion. Let me add to them.

If you are mentally prepared and HAVE time/money and willing to go that extra mile for her - tell her that you have lost your job due to recession and pretend that you are searching for job. Do this for 2 months and say that you did not get any job... see what her reaction is.

You would be far wiser - irrespective of if she supports you morally or even dumps you.

or - you can err on the safer side by changing your HP and other contact #s and forget about the whole episode!

PS: God willing, you do not become what your nic says.

[pussyman72]

Was told off by her that paying her at end of each bonking session makes me no diff from all her ex-customers. Maybe shes just one of the Red Star Award winner out there.

sorry to said that. the viet ger that i have been bonking for 2 mths also said that too me. RAW n no money but behind slowly sucking the juice out of the person thinking it a fairy tale.....

i chop the ger when she start to play pattern. others gers also do the same things to my friends so it part of their trade.

Good lucck bud u need alot :cool:

[HCKing]

It's just like many years back, when HK was returned to PRC, so many HK men had gfs and wives back in SZ GZ... Their gripes were that their women were too demanding, aggressive, possessive, blah-blah-blah...!!! So when the floodgates to PRC were opened, you know the story, just like what is happening here now... :D

Many of our girls are too materialistic liao, due to the environment they were brought up in. Add to the fact that our market is so open with the influx of so many foreign talent and professionals, it's no wonder they always have the dis-illusion and mistaken perception that the angmos are tua-ki... Lest they forget, the angmos were the ones who invented Via-lis-tra...

So now who's the "suay-ki" ones!!! Bwahahahahhahahaha!!! :D

reminds me of those ang mo porn actors, who seem to always have problems keeping those sleeping dicks of theirs awake, even when they r enjoying their BBBJ from pornstars!!:rolleyes:

[Panamera]

reminds me of those ang mo porn actors, who seem to always have problems keeping those sleeping dicks of theirs awake, even when they r enjoying their BBBJ from pornstars!!:rolleyes:

Bro, remember 2 weeks agao, there was a guy also with a Viet gal and the story was over a 200 dollars top-up for a laptop?

I cannot remember which thread but seems like that person is T.S

[HCKing]

Bro, remember 2 weeks agao, there was a guy also with a Viet gal and the story was over a 200 dollars top-up for a laptop?

I cannot remember which thread but seems like that person is T.S

ya, think the TS of that thread said he has decided to move on liao. this is the thread,

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/matters-heart/119384-need-advice.html

[Panamera]

ya, think the TS of that thread said he has decided to move on liao. this is the thread,

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/matters-heart/119384-need-advice.html

Was cheong at a joint last nite, a viet ger sat with my client, guess what the amount she quoted that made me went nuclear?

[HCKing]

Was cheong at a joint last nite, a viet ger sat with my client, guess what the amount she quoted that made me went nuclear?

viet ger? alot of them love to chop carrot leh. made u went nuclear ah? she asking for more than $500??:p

for my case if she ask for anything more than $100 i rather move on to the next target. got so many to choose. i rather pay tips after session if her service is good than risk kana chopped 1st and end up with a lousy bonk somemore.:rolleyes:

[Panamera]

viet ger? alot of them love to chop carrot leh. made u went nuclear ah? she asking for more than $500??:p

for my case if she ask for anything more than $100 i rather move on to the next target. got so many to choose. i rather pay tips after session if her service is good than risk kana chopped 1st and end up with a lousy bonk somemore.:rolleyes:

My client asked her...she said 400/shot..she said this is her market price and cannot negotiate..I did asked her: your pussy gold or you have 2 tongues? wahahahaha

Next minute, I shown her the door and get my client a younger ones...

[groo]

reminds me of those ang mo porn actors, who seem to always have problems keeping those sleeping dicks of theirs awake, even when they r enjoying their BBBJ from pornstars!!Haha, you'll be surprised how many of them are on Viagra since Via-cia-tra were invented!!! Suddenly, lots of men in the good old U.S. of A wants to be a super porn stud cos they think it's glamorous getting to bonk famous porn stars!!! :D Just Pathetic!!! :D

[havana]

Should be "My ADVICE...".

"Advise" is a verb.

Holy papaya!!! not again.........:(

[HCKing]

Haha, you'll be surprised how many of them are on Viagra since Via-cia-tra were invented!!! Suddenly, lots of men in the good old U.S. of A wants to be a super porn stud cos they think it's glamorous getting to bonk famous porn stars!!! :D Just Pathetic!!! :D

wow ya mean even young ang mo guys also on viagra?:eek:

maybe too much bonks, guns overused and faulty liao.:rolleyes:

[groo]

wow ya mean even young ang mo guys also on viagra?...maybe too much bonks, guns overused and faulty liao.Yes, so it's not only for those with problems now. Even the young are into it! The latest kick is to mix the V into their drinks... :eek:

[Fishcer]

U already lying to VN ger abt your finanical status. Better stop now if you can before u sink deep


Have some free time in the morning...so just my 2 cents worth,

Once u have to lie abt this, shows that there is a lack of trust on ur side. Since it is so, it's obvious that u should not bother to carry on. If u cannot trust some1, then it is meaningless asking soo much abt whether u shld do this or that, cos the relationship will simply not work out.

Also, since u have to lie about ur financial status, u r already conning her. So why bother thinking if she is conning u back? She is a WL, so she has the right to con u, its her job. If u con her, ur obviously not in this for real, u just enjoy the kick of the relationship n the FOC sex. Painting a more beautiful or a bleaker picture abt ur finances to her is just akin to digging a deeper hole, so either u come clean to her, or u just F*** off from this relationship.

[Panamera]

Stayed in Vietnam for 2 years, have attended many Singaporean, Taiwanese and Ang Mohs bros married local WL weddings when there. The funniest moments are the Ang Mohs, they unknowingly having many cousins among the invited guests (All Singapore and Taiwan bros)...They are kinda of straight thinking unlike us, asian, more cautious.

For T.S. case, you can from time to time make a short trip and spot check on your "invested" business since you intend to go for the long haul..It might clear the air of her "real" intend..

[Kate]

You must ask yourself if you are willing to be serious to her first