[Dating Advise Needed]Online-Offline Process & Procedure
 

Greeting.
Well some may know, some may not know.
I have 0 girlfriend, Single since Birth.

I would like the senior here for advise on how to get expose to more girl.

BTW, I hate Clubbing, Pub and Smoking Environment, it a Triple No for me.

Highest Education "N" Level Only. [I HATE STUDY so Dont Give ADVISE ON STUDY TO GET A BETTER FUTURE, I rather WORK MY ASS OFF]
Physically: OBESE around 88-95 kg

I use various online "free" but not exactly free till you pay to subscribe it or upgrade the member status.....

22 year old this year, sigh... lonely....


Any advise from senior here on what to do ....

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I hate fat people. It doesnt matter if u have a huge or small manboobs，you dont respect or love urself，why would any women give u a chance？

The less likable features you have = the more money you need to have to have success with women. Its more of emotional problems mixed with food addiction that creates a severely overweight human being. Thats abnormal.

If you keep repeating the same destructive cycle，with lack of self respect of yourself，you continue to be out of shape.

In reality and truth of the matter is when she wakes up to her friends or society judges they will not allow her to be with a FAT and severely overweight guy.

Hell start going to the gym and knock out those weight.

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Fully agree.
And actually.. Simply cutting down on intake.. Will lose weight fast.
As far as i know.. Sg air isnt so nutritious that eating air alone will gain weight.

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2 things you need to do first:

1. Slim down!

2. Make money!

Do these 2 things successfully then talk about looking for gf...:rolleyes:

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Yes stop eating so much junk food. The society treats fat，morbidly obese people worse than drug addicts. There is a lot of fat people ard in sg，they need to spend even more money to get success with women. Fitter and handsome guys tend to spend much less.

Confidence come from treating yourself good and feeling good abt yourself. Lose the weight why？It make u feel better ，reduce risk of heart attack，when it comes to dating， your charisma and social intelligence are what gets you women.

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Go to fly kite

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Good advice :)

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Bro
Return up +9
Cheers.........

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If one is not good looking, one need to be well-groomed, practice good social ettiquette, treat women with respect, be generous, be considerate and act gentlemenly at all time. If you know how to bring on the charm, am sure you could score better than those good lookers without charisma ... ;)

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You checked-in an adult forum at 18yrs old so I hope you're not addicted to sex.

Being fat is one thing, girls, like men are attracted to looks first so look into a full length mirror & ask yourself if you are attractive? Then do something about it.

Secondly, not all ladies want a hunk and all the women that I date don't. In fact, most girls prefer guys with a bit of meat and they go for character eg. humour & humility over egoistic and money is not that important though essential.

Oh yes, make sure you learn how to groom and smell good. Bad breath & body odour puts people off.

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Be well groomed. Be interesting. Be ambitious.

If you don't have those, fake it till you do.

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I think you just need to be more sociable and positive in life. Ladies will sense the positive "energy" that you exude and should be more receptive to you.

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You must have luck:)

I would rather you save up money then seek dating consultant to find suitable lady of your type. They charge about $2000-$4000 until you found suitable one.

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This is society bud.

Men want hot sexy beautiful smart women.

Do you know how tough its for them to maintain their figures? Take care of their skin. It's hours of pain and an art.

So putting it in reverse.

Women want capable men better if good look and fit.

Why capable, cause she needs someone to take care of her. Or at least doesn't need her to bother about financials.

That's fair. We want beautiful sexy girl. They want capable men.

What's need to improve

1) weight issue. I knew a girl who eats one meal a day and ran 5 km everyday to slim down 15kg. She used to be a fat girl that's been laugh at. But now she is one damn hot girl.

2) education - face it. We heard stories about poorly educated but went on to be millionaires. But how many are there? Education will ensure you have a decent income. No education you have to work triple hard.

And that brings me to a question. KNN you want to work hard and earn money but don't want study and want a girlfriend. What the fucking you don't understand the word working hard. Work hard can have time find girlfriend. You are simply talking cock. Just trying to defend your bad situation that you cause yourself in and wanted the best of everything.

I've a friend only PSLE. When he started working. He works at least 12 hours a day 7 days a week and often he works two days without sleep. His company is so impressed with him, he got promoted to foreman, supervisor, manager and now. He owns a company himself.

This is working hard.