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Originally Posted by tahana
hey bro.. sorry abt wat happen to you.. tts wat more of the people fear rite.. be it guys or gals.. to be caught by counterpart's frens..
are u a player?? if so.. u got to take it as a man... thrash it out with her face to face.. if both are willing to accept wat had happen and move on.. bravo!!
if not break it up cleanly without regrets. i believe ur pals and family also will be happy with ur decision.
if u not a player and feel cheated.. tts teh sadest thing to happen.. but i got to say " wake up" . she not worthy of u. a good man.. have faith with urself and move on. the world wun stop to pity u, and everyone konw tts lots and tonnes of gals out there more worthy..
good luck pal.. all depends on you. its simple actually. its jsut your heart toying ur mind around...
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Well, if the girl has something to hide, the last person who will know is TS, whether he trash it out with her or not. The idea is, if TS is afraid to lose her, then no point saying anything, no point doing anything, TS must do anything and accept everything to keep her, including being a cuckoo.
If TS really want to resolve this issue, then he must be prepared to become single again. Be prepared doesn't mean MUST let go la. But he has got to remove his expectations that she is still the innocent-with-unwavering-love-for-only-TS type of girl.
The most painful thing is to find out the truth and knowing that it must still hang around for eternity. Cannot cut means suffer forever. Can cut means suffer one time. Simple does it.