Hey bro woody woody,
I do understand where you are coming from, going thru trying times like this is no laughing matter. I myself just divorced last year, and since then I have been picking up bits and pieces. Life is just different once you're back to bachelorhood again. Is no longer when you're in singlehood days.
You will be more like soul searching and to rediscover yourself again. I'm sure you will be more careful and avoid mistakes before you want to start a new relationship. Everyone has a past, I guess we should be more positive and move on with our lifes.
If you seriously want to start a support group, you can count me in. Bro, hang in there and be strong my man! Cheers!