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Originally Posted by Wins88

I just want to share with bros here my last 5 to 6 months of a sexless marriage.
My wife and I had a wonderful sex life, and i have never cheated on her as we both have awesome sex ... until 6 months ago. She started to have really bad backaches (to the point she cries in pain) and upon further investigations by Dr's and specialists - they confirmed that she suffers from Endometriosis. Gynae prescribed a hormonal drug called Visanne and yes - it helped her get better and the backaches disappeared. However - this drug also lowers her libido to ZERO. I really regret that we did not take the laproscopic surgery route. The backaches have since returned and she also wants to have the surgery done.

Just want to share with bros here that if ur wife suffers from this - DO NOT TAKE the damn drug cos it will crash your married sex life. Many Gynaes can perform robotic surgery on this condition.

As for me, I am hoping that I can tahan and not go seek a ML or FL.

Oh boy - Let me depress you properly.

Disclaimer, before I start. I was already having a sexless marriage for 5-6 years before my wife got endometriosis in 2012.

Did the robotic laparoscopy surgery. After the she developed low grade undiagnosed fever. Started getting drip in throat. All tests revealed nothing. Then found out through trial and error and from Kaki's potential gluten allergy.

I am not saying that the surgery led to the low grade fever though my wife maintains that. But either which way my sexless sex life got even more sexless. She would say all sorts of things from pain during sex, to soreness to god knows what. Did all he counselling (including currently sex counselling) to no avail.

What's the point of the above. Just to let you know that life can fuck you up. If you have regular good sex with your wife please enjoy. This bro envies you. You never know when it will change.

What I need is FWB.