[jackylee]

She's a ONS / FWB only... dump her and find the next one.

People like to mention Genital Herpes are common... yes it is common... but this is mostly in the western countries. Alot of statistics are taken in western countries.

And it is not right to go and risk yourself even thou it's common. If you know someone got Covid, will you go la ji with her even though Covid is common now?

Men can carry herpes without symptoms.. and they mostly resolve itself when a man grow old to about 40... that is why there is no effective way to test for herpes for men or women over the age of 30s.

And this is also why women are encouraged to take HPV vaccine by 26 years old or so and after this age subsidies are no longer available for women taking the vaccine as it's no more encouraged.

Genital herpes affect women more than men because it is the cause of cervical cancer. It can cause penile cancer in men too but it is extremely rare.

It will depend on whether our immune system can fix the virus over time. It is said usually it take up to 2 years for our immune system to fix it, or never.

So the take away is,

1. If you got a daughter... let her take the vaccine as long she's qualify for it i remember it is 16 or younger...
2. We can't really avoid herpes due to it's prevalent and even condom can't protect against it... so... if you know someone has it... obviously don't go and poke her...