Married Bros Do You Pay For Everything?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by BatamBro

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Guys with foreigner wifes, I've heard stories that they have to help send back home money every month, is that also common or just depending on what kind of foreigner wife you married to?

Is the same history repeat...

1970s - Malaysian gals came from Ipoh to work and send money home
1980s - Thai gals came to work and send money home
1990s - PRC gals came to work and send money home
2000s - Vietnamese came to work and send money home

So depends the foreign wives...where you found her...if all wives were from rich familes then why need to send money home...

[happylifesg]

Better to talk clearly what wife pay and what you pay if both working, both will have to play apart

[DaddyEric]

Depends on what foundation your relationship is built on. What was the deal/promise before the marriage. I think if she in trouble at least can bail her out of that trouble. Got difference right finding a girl from hometown low key and marrying one from dating app like bumble or sugarbook(anyone does that?)

[Naka_Timo]

I think now cannot all depend on one to pay all. Both must contribute a bit. Not easy for one to pay all.

[Blackhauk]

No married alr pay everything. But I suggest boy pay 70% girl pay 30%, than only have balance point

[cena]

Originally Posted by larue

Don't blame something or someone else for the choice/s you make.

agree

[BatamBro]

Originally Posted by Blackhauk

No married alr pay everything. But I suggest boy pay 70% girl pay 30%, than only have balance point

i'll say 50/50 is not even possible these days.

[Sexyjo]

not yet married pay everything alr damn sian..

[stanley2704]

Originally Posted by happylifesg

Better to talk clearly what wife pay and what you pay if both working, both will have to play apart

ya seriously

[Dingdo]

Originally Posted by Naka_Timo

I think now cannot all depend on one to pay all. Both must contribute a bit. Not easy for one to pay all.

seriously！！

[jayden12345]

Originally Posted by Sexyjo

not yet married pay everything alr damn sian..

true i have same feeling

[gig4]

Originally Posted by ALSS74

Not married already paying 100%.

That the facts in singapore.

Guys forever lose out

damn real of this!

[Zetyalpha]

Originally Posted by gig4

damn real of this!

I concur
+1

[WhoIsDat]

Its always best if the wife doesnt work and the husband settles all the bills.
I know that many can't have this arrangement but its better to strive to that as a goal. Have a lifestyle according to what you can afford lah.

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by kujo86

I would measure based on expenditure. If I can afford it all, then I will pay all. If cannot, then the partner will help. If partner want to be stay home wife, then will need to accept whatever living standard my income can afford.

Basically, my income to pay for expenditure is the first priority. (Of course not use up all until i no money for myself), and not enough then wife help.

well said...