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Old 26-09-2021, 08:04 AM
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Re: FB woes

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Lol I know I’ll probably get some offers here. It’s also why I’m here anyways.
Many bros here Gian liao. Please put me in your queue number!
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Old 26-09-2021, 08:58 AM
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Re: FB woes

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Ok lah. I’m not AngelaBaby, looks are always subjective anyway
If u r unhappy,move on..no point to continue,sad to say.
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Old 26-09-2021, 10:37 AM
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Re: FB woes

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Where do you guys normally go when he initiated? Hotel only? Any pre-hotel arrangements e.g. meal and movie, etc.?

And where do you usually wants to go with him when you initiated it? Perhaps its somewhere that he doesn't like / wants to go? Or the time is always not right for him?
We don’t date. We meet up for sex only.
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Old 26-09-2021, 10:38 AM
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Re: FB woes

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andy low has a list of the fb/fwb on hand

A is a 9, B an 8, and C a 7

one saturday, andy low msg A, B and C "ai sio gan mai?"

A and B nv reply, C reply ok so andy low meetup with C for a sexxion

another saturday, andy low did the same thing

C reply ok and andy low made plans to meetup, but last minute A reply can meet so andy low decided to plane C because he can fuck A who is higher on his list


Thanks for this analogy. It is a good one.
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Old 26-09-2021, 10:39 AM
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Any chance you might be Pisces?
Hi. Nope I’m not Pisces.
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Old 26-09-2021, 10:39 AM
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Re: FB woes

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you allow him to bang other chicks? not an exclusive fb?
Lol how am I supposed to tell him not to bang other chicks. Come on.
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Old 26-09-2021, 10:40 AM
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Re: FB woes

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Respect for a person's effort to make time to meet up is a basic etiquette imo.

There are so many cocks in the sea for you to take your pick, so why settle less for a prick?

Take your time to choose and tease.
I agree. Thanks
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Old 26-09-2021, 10:44 AM
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Re: FB woes

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I am not gonna sugarcoat it…he is not treating u like an option, u are an option. He has a list of fb and I am sure u are not at the top. I used to be a player when I was much younger, that’s how the game is played, sorry to say.
I totally get that. And I am aware that’s the case for me. Still hurts in a sense. I’m sure there is a certain amount of off-the-bed PR that should be done in between fucks to keep the arrangement going. But I feel like I’m just being totally taken for granted. Treated like invisible when not required.
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Old 26-09-2021, 10:45 AM
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Re: FB woes

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Even it’s just a FB r/s, i still want it a 1 to 1 r/s.. Once either one of the party loses the interest, its time to move on no matter what qualities the FB has..

There are still many trees in the forest. Move on and find a new one, be decisive since u even knows that he has some other chicks out there.
Thanks and yes I’m trying to do that. It’s a bit tough for me. Maybe due to the length of the fb relationship and familiarity. But I will do it.
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Old 26-09-2021, 10:46 AM
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Re: FB woes

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If u r unhappy,move on..no point to continue,sad to say.
Thanks for your reply sis.
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Old 26-09-2021, 11:00 AM
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Re: FB woes

Well, bonk buds are when there's mutually convenient time/place

However I draw the line at when there's already a scheduled bonk and one side ghosts for no reason (Even more so if a room is booked). At the very least apologize or "compensate" somehow with another booking.

At most don't contact anymore.

But yes he wants u when he's horny but doesn't want when u are wet, that unfortunately cannot be avoided nor is there a simple solution. He's got options definitely, I bet u have too. Maybe just scroll through your bonk list and see which dick is hard when you're wet?
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Old 26-09-2021, 11:25 AM
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Re: FB woes

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I don’t think we need to have a heart to heart talk. It’s just a bang and go fb relationship. I think the moment I start to want to “talk”, he will bail. And no point really. He is banging other chicks too. And that’s the biggest reason why he is treating me as just one of many options. I’m fully self aware. I’m just here to rant and be upset. Lol. Thanks for reading.
There you go. You said it yourself

Its a typical FB thingy. Just bang and fuck off.

But I understand that some women will get too emotionally attached, and end up falling for the guy. And once that happens, its difficult for the lady to let go.

Even more so if the sex is too good. I used to have a FB where I like to blind fold and tie her up, and then play the sex games you see in 50 shades of grey. She kinda got so addicted to it. I had unleashed the little slut in her. LOL. She has since gotten married, so we parted.

Since you are fully aware of whats going on, then you should just accept the consequences. Nobody force you into it. You can always come into this forum and continue your rants
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Old 26-09-2021, 12:18 PM
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Re: FB woes

I speak from experience, dear.

Women thinks very differently from man. FB never meant to last because women craves for emotional attention, while men doesn't value much of it.

U wan sex, time and emotional attention from the man.
The man wan sex, sex, sex and abit of time and almost zero emotional attention.

That's the true, dear.

It's difficult to find a woman who needs exactly the same as the man. Its not impossible but one in million chance.

U will face multiple times thinking whether u wan to move on. So yeah, FB is never meant to last.



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Current FB loves power play in the bedroom. Loves calling me his slut, while I’m happy to please him 100% in bed within a daddy / kitten kink; he’s starting to treat me literally like a slut at his beck and call in real life too. As in, when I try to initiate a meetup, he is never available, yet he doesn’t try to reschedule either. It’s just dead end. Until the next time he decides to be all enthusiastic because he wants pussy. This leaves me feeling annoyed and upset and yet I continue to meet him after everything’s said and done.

Do you folks (guys and ladies) have FBs like that?

And what do you do to handle it?
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Old 26-09-2021, 02:32 PM
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Lol how am I supposed to tell him not to bang other chicks. Come on.
then you allow yourself to become an option to him. for me, it's a 1-to-1 rs even if she's just a fb.
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Lol how am I supposed to tell him not to bang other chicks. Come on.
Maybe you could share how did you get to know him? How long has it been in a fb relationship already?
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