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My sex life is boring!
Hello,
I’ve got to a point where I’m horribly frustrated. My wife doesn’t satisfy my needs sexually. I love her and want to get to a good place together, but I can’t get anything to work, I’ve tried being spontaneous and explaining what I need but this does not work, she is so angry with me. What else can i do? |
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If the wife expects the husband to stay faithful to her, while freely withholding sex for the slightest reason then she better expect her role as sex provider to be outsourced sometime soon. |
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I suggest TS seek marriage counsel before things turn badly. |
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May I suggest broaching the topic of an open relationship?
Scenario 1: she agrees and you are both sextisfied Scenario 2: she disagrees, but realises that you have needs and helps you arrive at a compromise Scenario 3: she disagrees and throws a fit. This suggests there might be a deeper problem(s) and y’all might want to seek marriage counselling Sexual compatibility is important for any relationship to last 🙂
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There could be a possibility is not sex but rather a deeper issues. One fine example is communication.
Sometimes you can't tell her what you want. Cos maybe she felt like a tool instead of a partner. |
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Perhaps things she expects of you and expect you to know, but we being men, sometimes just aren't aware. Ask her to state in brief and if she's able to communicate that properly, then one up her expectations? and if that still doesn't work, perhaps she simply just doesn't like sex? |
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Welcome to the club! |
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1. How long have you been married to your wife? 2. Do you have any kids with your wife? It is a known fact that a majority of the women will experience a decline in sexual appetite after giving birth. 3. Did you have sex with her before you decide to marry her? Believe it or not, but many guys out there prefer to "test out" the product, before making a marriage decision. 4. You mentioned that you love her. But does she love you in return? Just know that what you are experiencing is very normal. There are many married guys out there who are stuck in a sexless marriage just like you. And sad to say, many married couples are just not sexually compatible. My ex-neighbour is a good example. His daughter (Plain Jane looks) married a nerdy-looking guy. They never looked to have any chemistry at all, let alone any sexual compatibility. The hubby-wife vibe was never present between them. The hubby call the wife "Dear", but the wife call the hubby "Oei". When they talk, its like 2 normal friends talking to each other. The guy did talk a lot about the Champions League with the wife though. Whether the wife understood football is another matter. I remembered there was one incident where the wife came out at around 11pm to check out the plants outside their unit, and found a... caterpillar. I was thinking, WTF? I thought she should be fucking with her hubby at this time? They ended up arguing over who should be removing the caterpillar instead. Your wife does sound like the typical woman with very low sex drive. If you married the wife because it is true love, and the sex doesn't matter, then I take my hat off to you. |
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I explained to her that she married a man, not a monk. But reasoning with her regards of any issue normally don’t work. Soon, she will be my ex wife. |
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Every man has a mission. For now yours should be Covert Operation: Steal Eat
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Bro this says it all
I haven't had sex with the Mrs in years and years. So I found myself a FB, in the beginning it was hot and crazy, 3 times a day, sometimes we leave the hotel only to find ourselves going back after a meal. Or do it and driving her back, we go to a car park and bang again One period, we bang so much, I was chaffing. But like all good things they don't last The years moved on, and the sex became less. trying more, cosplay, sex toys, sexy clothes, sex videos, crotchless panties etc....most of the tryst was a one time off. Wear one, change another suit next time. I have a ton of cosplay crap. There's only so much one can give and not take, so I gave up. Too much effort, too little reward. And once too often, I get the, you only want sex, or you only buy the stuff you like, you didn't ask me what I like kind of shit. (and I buy a ton of other stuff for her, that she loves). That actually creates alot of resentment because she does not try, but she wants to criticise, so I put her on the no fuck list, and now all hints to sex from her or intimacy of any kind is faced with a no way in hell, because I do not ever want to hear those shitty accusations again. Like damn it, I know some women are dying to please their man, and I feel like a beggar. Downgraded her from Fuck buddy, to face buddy, meaning we meet face to face, but no fucking, more like friends buddies, or food buddies. Over the years, I have supplemented it with a light dining out paid and free just to keep the sanity in myself That's life.
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Marriage is the tomb of love.
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married already will have this type of feeling too?
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